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I've always been a fan of detail in stories. I was hoping to relay that sometimes is good to slow down, listen and learn.

Posted by: lobogotti on May 07, 21:07 in response to Rocket123 aka PVL Admin's post This could have been posted as "my mom lives in a...

It's easy to overlook and brush people off because we're busy.  I'm guilty of that.

at the time today I wasn't nearly impressed with her son as saddened that I'd never really taken the time to listen to her or my mother.  

a parent is always proud.  far be it from me to not give any of them a few moments of my time to pay attention and learn about their loved ones, whether they wash dishes or space travel, they all matter.  that's what I learned today.  slow down Clayton.

movie related, I swear: so my mother had a stroke 5 years ago this Thanksgiving. she's was paralyzed on her left side completely at just 51. lobogotti May 07, 13:55

*hug* {nm} Paul2k May 07, 14:04

;) {nm} lobogotti May 07, 14:24

btw, that is one star-studded assisted living facility your mom is in! {nm} Paul2k May 07, 14:05

you should hear some of the stories. btw, the ones I listed are actually all true and like Mary, I verified them all by some random lobogotti May 07, 14:26

Thanks for sharing :) {nm} tealfan May 07, 17:21

;) {nm} lobogotti May 07, 18:33

Thanks for Sharing. Best Wishes to You & your Mom on Mother's Day. {nm} RotoHockey2013Main Port May 07, 14:26

To yours as well {nm} lobogotti May 07, 14:26

Great story! Happy Mother's Day to your Mom! Txredd May 07, 14:45

This. {nm} Anniebecca May 07, 15:00

:) {nm} lobogotti May 07, 16:19

thanks and I certainly hope not! {nm} lobogotti May 07, 16:18

You continue your care of your mother and her friends. It makes her feel good and in turn, you feel good too. Been there, done that. {nm} GruntNoNeck May 07, 15:29

it just makes you realize how lucky you are and think about where life takes you. how short it all really is. {nm} lobogotti May 07, 16:20

While the story is wonderful, the real point is how commendable you are. You should be proud. {nm} numbersix_99 May 07, 16:28

your words are kind and appreciated, I definitely could do more, but wrestle with a lot of the past. regardless lobogotti May 07, 17:57

ha, I remember my mother saying she was in it (and of course a star). It's called Sarge, link inside... lobogotti May 07, 18:03

There is a great line late in "Tokyo Story" about how important it is to look after one's parents while they are alive. second gary May 07, 16:33

thank you for sharing gary, I appreciate that. and Tokyo Story, so great! lobogotti May 07, 18:33

Happy Mother's Day. You've got one big one up on those other rich kids. Good for you and your mom. {nm} goodvibe61 May 07, 16:49

very kind of you to say sir, thank you, I appreciate it. {nm} lobogotti May 07, 18:33

Awesome story Lobo. I'm your time with your mothers and the others means more than anything that could just be sent as a gift. {nm} Dorfman May 07, 19:04

early on, when she became established and could get by, I found myself sometimes dreading to go. then as time went by lobogotti May 07, 21:01

My mom passed and was sick a long time. I know how difficult it is to go see and yet afterwards you know you wouldn't have missed seeing tradermark May 08, 00:51

To paraphrase a line from kill bill vol 1, "Bob Layton is the man". {nm} eternal warrior May 07, 20:21

no way? Is that true? if so, that's quite cool. {nm} lobogotti May 07, 21:02

This could have been posted as "my mom lives in a home with a lady whose son is ..." BUT it wouldn't have been nearly as interesting! {nm} Rocket123 aka PVL Admin May 07, 20:39

I've always been a fan of detail in stories. I was hoping to relay that sometimes is good to slow down, listen and learn. lobogotti May 07, 21:07

I don't think there's another player here that is as genuine as a person as you are, which is quite refreshing in this context slappydavid May 07, 23:06

very kind of you to say slappy, thanks. btw, just looking at your port and you keep at that! excellent trading for just lobogotti May 08, 05:26

Life throws unexpected challanges are way, glad your able to help out........sadly many others just walk away. {nm} BelizeIt May 07, 23:24

indeed I will. thanks for the comment. Like I was saying, the place is a ghost town most everytime I go, but I lobogotti May 08, 05:30

Nice story. Your mother can be happy to have you. I know people 20-30 years of age that have suffered a stroke. {nm} mattep74 May 07, 23:30

thank you Matt. that's horribly disheartening to hear. hope it's nobody close to you and if so, my best for their lobogotti May 08, 05:32

Happy Mothers day to your mom Lobo, To Mary and all the moms who frequent here, and to everyones moms. tradermark May 08, 00:45

thsnk you Mark. very Happy Mother's Day indeed. lobogotti May 08, 05:39

What a great story...you are a wonderful daughter.. place in heaven for people like you! :-) {nm} Flash May 08, 07:04

kind of you to say. and though I'm completely comfortable with my feminine side, I'm actually a son. :) {nm} lobogotti May 08, 07:18





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