There are only 70 available women between 18 and 99. Within an hour of posting my ad, this hot little 34 year old send me an email. The QnA went on for 3 days days and then stopped. I pretty much have both feet grounded in reality, the ideal plane as it's known and I answered her questions about my past mentioning that only one of my many relationships was meaningful. I think that's what did it. I then let her know that it was the one night stand I had about 2 months after a 6+ year relationship ended. There is a logical reason for this to be true. It basically got me over it. I still need to erase the "lotus" from my mind, and I don't think 34 years old even know what the lotus position is.
I recently change my ad to say that I remember relationships just happened. They started naturally and were not forced. The relationship generally continued past the 1st and 2nd dates as long as the other person was having fun and enjoying themselves. back when there actually was a social network, to get a date for Friday Night, all a guy had to do was say, hey, you wanna go out and 60 to 80 percent of the time if she wasn't washing her hair, busy or too good for you, you got a date. It was that simple.
The ad mainly said that I could have spent the 10 bucks for 7 days of email permit on a cardboard sign, makers and a bottle of water. And that I could stand on just about any corner holding the siad that said "Hey, You Wanna Go Out" and have more fun and most likely get a date. I wasn't looking for the perfect woman or a woman with the right ingredients, I was just looking for someone who wanted to go out Friday Night.
No. This is not a reproduction of the ad. The ad might have 100 words to it. I did mention that I wasn't really into music and don't need some rock star to remind me of the way things were or the way things ought to be. I just wanted a date.
To be honest, I could spend a day at the laundromat talking to the 1st 70 women waiting for the spin cycle to end and prolly go to lunch while the clothes are in the dryer.
Online dating is not the way to get a date. It's not the way it's done and thankfully I'm young enough to remember.